Giving
 

 

Good Friends in Christ, peace!
Allow me to give you some significant facts about ourselves and our overall financial situation.

OURSELVES
Consider perhaps a rare thought. A parish like ours is really a voluntary organization. Freely, without reservation you and I have chosen Jesus Christ as Lord and His Church as our home. Such a choice logically requires our supporting the Church in several ways; one of them is financial. The more that all of us are convinced of this viewpoint, the more that our community can do “something beautiful for God”, as Mother Teresa put it. However, one thing worries me. I am afraid that many parishioners mistakenly see the Church as existing only to provide them with services. They ignore their responsibility of support, and, more worryingly, they are gradually reducing their spiritual participation. The truth is clear: Everyone who belongs to Christ has a responsibility to give Him all. We must be spiritually, vitally committed. In Christ’s New Covenant “All, from least to greatest, shall know me, says the Lord…” (Jeremiah 31: 34). Our motto must be the one St. John tells us marked Jesus’ life: “Zeal for Your House consumes me!” (John 2: 17).

GRATITUDE
Because so many of you agree with and live by the above truths, the financial report of the parish, school and cemetery is clearly healthy. Happily I congratulate all of you who have generously given. You deserve special thanks for your extensive help for those in need and the many causes brought to your attention by the Archdiocese.

OFFERTORY ENVELOPES:
Our consistent cause of financial success in the past has been the use of offertory envelopes. Our reliable weekly income is ensured by about 600 families who use envelopes. The problem? We have 2,700 families registered! It is clear that every adult must be convinced of the need to obtain and use envelopes. If presently you do not, please, I ask you, pick up a purple edged envelope at the back of Church, fill it out, put in your money and drop it in next week’s collection. In a few weeks you begin to get a monthly packet. People, you must take this advice to heart! Regular giving via offertory envelopes by more and more parishioners would alter our situation significantly. “Whoever has ears ought to hear.” (Matthew 13:8).

BUDGETED GIVING
Here’s a strong statement: Haphazard giving, even by offertory envelopes, is completely unhelpful. What everyone needs to do is decide just how much one can afford to give. Families need to sit down and consider church giving as a responsibility just like any other: taxes, food, fuel, utilities, etc. Decide what percent of income you can give. Consider just 1%. Rockland’s average household income per year is about $43,000. 1% would be $8.60 a week. $50,000? 1% would be $10 a week. $100,000? $20 per week. Think it out. What is Christ asking? You know that some other Christians give 10% of their gross income to God. Let me tell you a lovely fact. Some Catholics in Rockland also tithe! I definitely can name one.

THE POINT
“God loves a cheerful giver.” (II Corinthians 9: 7). Our generosity toward Holy Family is really given to God. The day has come when haphazard giving to God is passé. The “one buck” even “two bucks” in the basket just doesn’t cut it; not in the 21st century!

HOWEVER
Many, especially our elderly, are on fixed incomes. Many have found their incomes decline shockingly. Someone recently explained that she could not afford to put anything in her envelope! So – some of you may be forced to give less! Some can only give what they are already giving. My advice has always been: “Do the best you can. If we all do our best, the Lord will get us through.” But to all who can increase giving, here’s the issue:

PLEASE CONSIDER THE PROBLEM
We cannot help the poor, do adult education, keep our buildings in repair, enjoy quality means of worship, witness marriages and prepare people for marriage, do last rites, serve emergency duty at the hospital, bury the dead, console the sorrowing, run a thrift shop, clean the church, remove the snow, cut the grass, counsel, absolve, anoint, do First Communions, run CCD, offer Confirmation, offer LifeTeen, organize programs of spirituality and social justice, instruct and welcome Catechumens, run the business affairs of the school, the parish and the cemetery, administer CORI checks, teach Virtus & Protecting God’s Children programs, let neighbors use our facilities, pay for salaries, heat, utilities, computers, copiers, insurance, the rectory and dozens of other expected and necessary services and ministries except by adequate funding. It is that simple. So this is my basic request:

MY BASIC REQUEST
All the above being said, especially about offertory envelopes and deciding on a percentage of income dedicated to the Church, 

GRATITUDE
Thank you for considering my request. Thank you for all you have ever given. You are good people! On behalf of all our staff and myself I say “Thank You”. Finally, my thanks to the Finance Committee and the Parish Pastoral Council who helped me enormously in preparing this presentation, a job which I less than relish. The Word says, “(We) can do all things in Him who gives us strength.” (Colossians 4: 13). Therefore, let us put our trust in Jesus. God bless! JFH 
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PLANNING FOR THE FUTURE
Recently I received a pleasant surprise. Not one but two deceased parishioners remembered the Parish in their wills. One has already come through. It is not enormous, but it is such a hopeful sign in the face of our responsibilities with repairing the fabric of our buildings. The second will not be made public for a year. I knew both of these parishioners fairly well. They appreciated and loved their Parish. They accepted the responsibility to aid the mission of the Church even after they had gone to meet Our Lord Jesus. Not a bad preparation for that encounter.

Another surprise also came recently. Another elderly parishioner aware of the repairs we shall be making decided not to wait until after her death to make a gift to the Parish. She has informed me that we shall be receiving a gift in the near future. It’s encouraging and thought provoking and I am grateful.

 

REMEMBERING THE PARISH IN YOUR WILL
Last week I mentioned the good news of people remembering our parish when they made out their will. So, may I ask everybody to consider leaving a gift to Holy Family Parish when making out a will. Thank you for considering this important idea. God bless! JFH  . Posted 090510

 

 

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